Talking deeply, being happier

It has been reported recently in the New York Times that those who talk deeply are happier.  I've assumed this at some level and have always had a desire to engage deeply in conversations.  Blogging about finding balance and meaning is my way of talking deeply (and not) to anyone willing to read my muses.
Finding others with such an interest is not very common, particularly in the dating scene I experienced.  Small talk can get boring fast if it doesn't lead to more depth.   To engage in deep conversations, people have to be willing to expose themselves at some level.
The article states that "substantive conversation seemed to hold the key to happiness for two main reasons:

• human beings are driven to find and create meaning in their lives
• we are social animals who want and need to connect with other people.

By engaging in meaningful conversations, we manage to impose meaning on an otherwise pretty chaotic world.  And interpersonally, as you find this meaning, you bond with your interactive partner, and we know that interpersonal connection and integration is a core fundamental foundation of happiness.”
If talking deeply has not been your thing, you can experiment by trying to do some more every day and see how you feel, perhaps with your significant other.  You may find that you two become more intimate.  If you are male, I can almost assure you of it as a female.  I don't think I've ever heard a female friend complain that her mate spoke too deeply with her.
Source:  New York Times